Fear. The
fear of not being loved and accepted. The fear of what people will
think of me since I have put on some weight. The fear of not being a
size 0. The fear of not knowing what lies ahead. These are some of
the painful thoughts that have been pouring into my mind for the past
2 months. A part from being at work, I have dreaded leaving the house.
I wish I
could explain to the ones I love what this feels like, but no one quite understands. When you go out in public, you feel that all eyes are on
you and it's constant judgement. “Oh man she looks so bad. I wonder
how much she's put on?” You lose all confidence in
yourself and doubt why you're still here. My love of life has been
ripped away from me once again.
I dread the mirror, and pray to God that he changes the person that I see before me. It kills me on the inside and I constantly pick a part my flaws. It's pathetic that I have to speed walk past the wall of mirrors at work, to escape myself. How did it get to this point to where I can't even accept who I am anymore?
I am so
sorry to everyone that I have hurt during this process. I know you
don't understand and I wish I could give you a glimpse of what this
is like. Just know how much I love you. All I ask is for your
patience. I know you never know what to expect from me anymore, but please
know that I am trying my absolute best to beat this. And everyday I
focus on being stronger with God's grace.
Tonight at church we learned how we need to rid the fear of man out of our life by accepting who we are. No more comparing ourselves to one another, and striving to be something that we are not. All that matters is how our Father sees us, and what an awesome feeling knowing that I am a part of His family.
First off Lord, thank you for blessing me with the gift of being your daughter. I ask God, that you please grant me serenity. Help me to look past these evil thoughts that take over my life. It doesn't matter what size I am, or how "fit" I am. The love that pours from my heart is all that matters. Help me to rid these selfish desires, by looking at ways to help others. Thank you for letting me be a part of your family.
In his name,